I'm scared.....

[LolJolteonMaster]

My parent are fighting. I'm scared to death. Help me.

[Tamer Marco]

Think of this. They are trying fighting becasuse they don't know hich toy to give you for christmas or you're birthday. Does that help. Maybe tommorow when they stoped fighting you can ask them whats going on with you two fighting.

[[Fair]]

Fighting? How badly?

Just words, or is it more violent?

[Lucky Flareon]

Maybe its something minor. I know my parents argue over things sometimes, and usually its nothing bad.

[LolJolteonMaster]

They fight over everything. It isn't just words, either, more violent. Me and my mom are leaving, but we don't know when. My dad is scary.

[Zombie]

I'm sorry to hear that :sad:

if you guys are leaving for a bit, that may be for the best. sometimes people need time apart :smile:

[HKim]

Parents argue constantly. Reasons can vary from something important to something quite trivial. Perhaps they had a bad day, or maybe they're simply concerned about you. Whatever the reason, if you feel in any way shaken up, you can do two things: Ignore it or Talk to your parents about it.

Ignoring it may be helpful if your parents were simply in a bad mood. Let sleeping dogs lie, don't create tension in something trivial.

On the other hand, talking with your parents may be the best thing to do. Try a time afterwards, when both of them are calm, clear-headed for the most part. Sometimes they might explain their reasons for arguing and sometimes they won't, but at least this way you relay your concern for their well-being. Later, they might tell you or comfort you in some way. Communication is important in a family and we must remember that we're all human, even parents. Sometimes a simple chat can solve a problem. A single person can save the world.

[boltAge]

I'm sorry to hear that :sad:

if you guys are leaving for a bit, that may be for the best. sometimes people need time apart :smile:
Correct.

I have only one thing to say - Time solves everything.

[Techno Treecko]

Correct.

I have only one thing to say - Time solves everything.

Wrong. Time does not solve everything Raik, and sometimes it can only make worse open wounds that weren't healed long before. It's best to take care of the situation now, not leave it alone. I agree completely with H Kim's statement, and he's said the best that anyone can say for a crisis such as this.

[Ho-oh]

My parents fight, and it’s usually about things like money. But they always make up in the end.

Has your father ever injured your mother? If so, maybe you should tell an adult you trust a lot, like a friend of your mother’s or somebody like that. They’ll know what to do.

[Tamer Marco]

You may wanna converse what happened and why they were fighting. Maybe they were fighting because they each need thier space and alone time.

[Alakazam]

Correct.

I have only one thing to say - Time solves everything.

Time is also the sole destroyer of life...nothing can withstand it's unstoppable force :confused:

[Raddstealth316]

I know exactly how you feel Jolteonmaster, my parents fought all the time, it was so scary sitting there and watching them argue...it even got violent sometimes, there hasn't been fighting recently hopefully it won't happen again, it would be natural to be scared, but try and be strong, suggestions mentioned above could really help like talking it over with a friend of the family, talking it out could help solve the situation, in some cases yes but others no, just hope that ures can be solved by talking. Goodluck, I hope things work out.

[sdp]

If it's violent beyond words you should defenately call someone for help.
Also if you feel like talking to someone you should, you should defenately not let this affect you too much, **** happens, it's sad but true, try to live the best you can and remember theres always people that care about you!

[Ferret]

I know how that feels, although it was never violent, my parents always used to argue badly about the most pitiful thing.
They divorced about six years ago, and I must say it was the best thing they could ever have done. For each other and for me and my brother.

I live with my mum naturally but still keep in contact with my dad... I suppose they're fair when it comes to us kiddies....

[LolJolteonMaster]

On sunday, my dad will make my mom leave. She has a key to our house, and a friend will help us. My dad struck my mom so hard today, blood was drawn. He says now, if the police come, they'll see the blood and put him in jail. I hope that happens. My dad is cheating on my mom with another woman. He is an evil man. I'm deathly scared.

[HKim]

On sunday, my dad will make my mom leave. She has a key to our house, and a friend will help us. My dad struck my mom so hard today, blood was drawn. He says now, if the police come, they'll see the blood and put him in jail. I hope that happens. My dad is cheating on my mom with another woman. He is an evil man. I'm deathly scared.


Jolteon, I know that this is a hard time for you. I cannot say I've been in a similar situation, but what I can say is that we are here for you. PE2K is not only a website for battling and hints, but also one for support. Whatever happens, we are still here, with you, trying to see the light at the end of a long, dark tunnel. We are your friends, your companions. If one of us falls, we pick them back up. So, be strong! Our prayers are with you.

[masaki]

Wrong. Time does not solve everything Raik, and sometimes it can only make worse open wounds that weren't healed long before. It's best to take care of the situation now, not leave it alone. I agree completely with H Kim's statement, and he's said the best that anyone can say for a crisis such as this.

In that case time doesn't heal all wounds. Anyway I don't think anything serious will happen. Everything will be fine. My friends parents had fights like that and everything came out just like it used to be for him. The same will happen for you.

Jolteon, I know that this is a hard time for you. I cannot say I've been in a similar situation, but what I can say is that we are here for you. PE2K is not only a website for battling and hints, but also one for support. Whatever happens, we are still here, with you, trying to see the light at the end of a long, dark tunnel. We are your friends, your companions. If one of us falls, we pick them back up. So, be strong! Our prayers are with you.

Nobody I know in my city could have said that nearly as good and I think your right HKim.

[boltAge]

I don't want to say too much, but my dad threw a chair at my mum because my mum wanted to go to her sister's house to pray to her dad who's not in the world anymore...

TT, I SAY IT DOES SO IT DOES. :mad: :mad: :mad: [/crap]

Jolt, I believe that reporting your dad to the police is the correct choice. He can be sued for adultery and assault :mad:

[Thunderbird]

It always happens to me too. Once we are dining in the dinning room and my mum and dad suddenly quarrelled and began throwing chopsticks and forks. My mum cried afterwards and said she'd like to divorce. But after some time they became normal again. Oh i'm really scared at that time :eek:

[Evanna]

Through reading all this... Are there so many problems in all of your families?
In mine too...
My dad and mom fight from time to time. And when they do, lots of things are laying broken on the floor afterwards :/ I'm scared to death in those times too. My mom sticks with my dad just because of us and the money. She can't raise us herself, I have 3 big brothers, 2 are still studying plus me too. We all hate our dad so much... >_<

I can only wish you a lot of support JolteonMaster =| We're here for ya! And like HKim said, try to draw your parents attention. Sometimes the kids can do a lot. They will divorce, no matter what. But maybe you can make them leave eachother in peace, and not while battling about who gets what of the money and so on... YOU need to change their minds. Make it clear that you're still there too. And if your dad hurts your or something :/ Don't mind that... I know it sounds hard, but those wounds can heal, not the wounds if you'd stay with him.

Good luck,
Erika ;)

[Karisuma-Teichou]

I don't want to say too much, but my dad threw a chair at my mum because my mum wanted to go to her sister's house to pray to her dad who's not in the world anymore...

TT, I SAY IT DOES SO IT DOES. :mad: :mad: :mad: [/crap]

Jolt, I believe that reporting your dad to the police is the correct choice. He can be sued for adultery and assault :mad:

More like asult and battery., and if he touched her child abuse. Eaither way I dono what to do my parents have never faught that way but, my friends parents do. I know how hard it is for her. Do something about is now before someone get hurt again.

[silverfrost]

Through reading all this... Are there so many problems in all of your families?
In mine too...
My dad and mom fight from time to time. And when they do, lots of things are laying broken on the floor afterwards :/ I'm scared to death in those times too. My mom sticks with my dad just because of us and the money. She can't raise us herself, I have 3 big brothers, 2 are still studying plus me too. We all hate our dad so much... >_<

I can only wish you a lot of support JolteonMaster =| We're here for ya! And like HKim said, try to draw your parents attention. Sometimes the kids can do a lot. They will divorce, no matter what. But maybe you can make them leave eachother in peace, and not while battling about who gets what of the money and so on... YOU need to change their minds. Make it clear that you're still there too. And if your dad hurts your or something :/ Don't mind that... I know it sounds hard, but those wounds can heal, not the wounds if you'd stay with him.

Good luck,
Erika ;)

I'm in a similar situation. The only reason my mother stays with my father is because of my sister and me. He's not a very good person, and although he has never been violent towards her, he doesn't treat her very well. We all have reason to believe that he's commiting adultery as well. I strongly dislike him and barely talk to him. What bothers me most is how her wonders why. -_-;

Anyway, JolteonMaster, I can certainly sympathize with you about this situation. Hkim is right about us being here for you. If you ever need to talk to someone about this, I'm willing to just listen. I know how hard it can be to deal with this sort of problem, so I'm here for you, as well as the rest of us.

[boltAge]

Same here, cuz my dad's the guy who earns most of the money in the family, my mum earns little a month. She can't afford to bring me AND my sister up alone... My dad sucks anyway, I hate him, he treats everybody in the family like his maid :rolleyes:

[silverfrost]

Same here, cuz my dad's the guy who earns most of the money in the family, my mum earns little a month. She can't afford to bring me AND my sister up alone... My dad sucks anyway, I hate him, he treats everybody in the family like his maid :rolleyes:

Yep. My father doesn't give respect to his children or even his wife, and he thinks he's the "boss" of the house. -_- So then he expects us to give him respect? Hm...

[Tamer Marco]

I don't really know about stuff like this because I lived with my mother for 8 years. My dad rarely visits so I don't give a **** about him :mad:.

[KCash]

My parents have been divorced for a year and a half yet they still seem to find some time to talk to each other and fight even more. Its the natural way of society, fighting has always been around. I always thought keeping a journal/diary seemed like a stupid thing to do but when you are scared or worried cause your parents are fighting then believe me, its a great thing to do. It takes a lot of stress and scaredness out of you when you put it on paper. Also do as everyone above said, try talking it over when everything is calmed. Hope everything works out

[Sutiivun]

I know how you fell Jolteon. My parents were fighting a couple of weeks ago. My dad left and my brother and I started to cry. He didn't come back until we were asleep and I was crying in my bed. My parents rarely fight though I just hate it when they do! :cry:

[sunchip]

My parent are fighting. I'm scared to death. Help me.

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